Read the documents carefully. When serving you with the opportunity to answer, the court will enclose a copy of the original complaint. It’s best not to respond immediately but to take a few days to consider your answer.
Note the deadline for your answer. Most courts will give you at least two weeks to answer the complaint, and you should make sure that you file your answer within the time limit. If you don’t file an answer, you could lose your right to claim custody.
Formulate your own answer. Most courts will send you a pre-printed form for completion. If not, you can create your own word-processed document. Remember to include the court reference number in all documentation so that your answer can be filed with all other papers. Take your time to do this, as once filed, your answer becomes part of the court process. In your answer, you should respond to any claim made by the other parent. You can also make your own counterclaim, stating your wishes regarding custody.
Take advice from a specialized family lawyer if you are unclear about your legal rights. The court can provide you with the names of local lawyers to consult.
Complete and sign your answer. Some courts may require that you sign your answer before a notary public and will provide you with the details of local notaries. This is a fairly straightforward process, and the notary public will charge a small fee.
File your answer at the court. You can either mail the answer or hand it in. You can ask the court officials to read your answer and check that it has been completed correctly before you file it formally. You may have to make multiple copies of your answer.
Serve your answer on the other party. The court can provide you with detailed instructions on how to serve, but in most cases, you can serve your answer either by mail or by hand. For a fee, a registered process server can deal with this for you.
Retain a copy of your answer so that you can refer to it in any subsequent court hearing.
Consider mediation as a means to resolving disputed child custody issues. Your local family court can provide information on available mediation services.