Separation & Divorce in Virginia State

By Wayne Thomas

Living separate and apart for a period is a prerequisite for most grounds for divorce in Virginia. The state broadly and simply defines separation as a continuous break from being husband and wife. Understanding how voluntary separation affects your divorce, as well as the situations in which the court can order a separation can help you better prepare for your Virginia divorce.

No-Fault Divorce

Virginia recognizes separation as the only ground for no-fault ground for divorce. If you have children, the separation period is one year. If you have no children and a separation agreement, the separation period is six months. Although the separation must be continuous and not interrupted by resuming cohabitation, the law does not require that you and your spouse maintain different residences. This issue could arise in cases where renting or owning two dwellings is not economically feasible. However, if you do continue to live under the same roof with your spouse, you should take steps to demonstrate that you are indeed separated. These might include sectioning off portions of the home and eliminating financial interdependence by closing all joint bank accounts.

Fault-Based Divorce

With the exception of adultery, you are required to demonstrate a one-year separation period if you pursue a divorce under traditional fault grounds. The applicable fault grounds in Virginia are conviction of a felony with imprisonment of at least one year, cruelty causing reasonable apprehension of bodily harm, and willful desertion or abandonment. Although the lengths of time are comparable, the chief difference between fault-based abandonment and no-fault separation is that the latter is voluntary and mutual, while the former involves the stopping of cohabitation against the will of the other spouse. To obtain a divorce on the grounds of either cruelty or abandonment, you must wait until the year of separation passes before filing.

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Legal Separation

In you are subject to cruelty or were deserted by your spouse, but have not yet met the one-year separation requirement, you can file for an immediate legal separation, which is referred to as a divorce from bed and board in Virginia. It differs from an absolute divorce in that you are not free to remarry after a divorce from bed and board. However, one benefit to this type of separation is that it represents an official order from the court to legally separate, which in cases of cruelty might mean ordering your spouse to leave the marital home. In addition, you may also request temporary orders from the court regarding property, spousal support and custody during the separation period. Once the separation period is complete, you may convert the action to an absolute divorce, and your case will move forward.


Parties that voluntarily separate may also resolve matters related to property, support and custody without the assistance of the court through a separation agreement. These agreements are considered binding contracts. The court can use such an agreement as the basis for determining the parties' obligations after divorce. Although a judge will resolve these issues if you cannot agree, courts look favorably on parties that can resolve their disputes amicably, and you may effectively avoid mediation or other dispute resolution procedures that can slow the divorce process in Virginia.

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