When you file and serve divorce papers, you give the Georgia court jurisdiction over issues pertaining to your marriage. These issues include custody of your children during the divorce process. By Georgia law, you must notify your spouse of your new address, even if you're simply moving across town. If you decide to move out of state and take your children with you, the court has the power to order you to return them if your spouse files a motion requesting it. You have the right to file a motion yourself, however, asking the court for temporary custody pending your final divorce. You can request that the temporary custody order include provisions that would allow you and your children to move.
Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act
If you and your spouse have separated but neither of you have actually filed for divorce yet, there's no active litigation. You might think this makes it easier for you to relocate with the children without court involvement, but this isn't the case. Georgia has adopted the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act. Under the terms of the UCCJEA, the only state that can make orders regarding your children's custody – including officially giving custody to you – is the one where your children have lived for the last six months. If this is Georgia, you'd have to live in another state – with your children – continuously for a six month period before that state would have jurisdiction to issue an order giving you custody. During this six month period, your spouse can file for custody in Georgia, and Georgia can order you to return the children to the state.
Almost without question, you'll need Georgia's permission to relocate with your children, during or after your divorce. If there's active litigation, Georgia statutes require that you give your spouse 30 days' notice of your intention to move. If your spouse objects, he can involve the court to stop you. In 2003, the Georgia Supreme Court was willing to change an existing custody order, granting custody to the parent who was not relocating rather than allow the custodial parent to move with the children. This paved new ground because Georgia historically allowed such moves based on the presumption that relocating custodial parents had a right to retain physical custody; objecting parents would have to demonstrate that the move was not in their child's best interest in order to overcome this presumption. As a result, it's by no means a sure thing that a Georgia court will automatically allow you to relocate just because you want to, unless you can prove some compelling circumstance that makes the move beneficial for your children, not necessarily for you.
If any of your children are teenagers, they might have the final word regarding whether they move. Georgia is somewhat unique in that it allows children 14 or older to decide which parent they want to live with. The child's preference is controlling – this means if he says he doesn't want to move and wants to remain with his other parent, the court is obligated to grant his request unless his chosen custodial parent is unfit. The court must at least consider the feelings of children as young as 11. In addition to your children's wishes, Georgia judges must weigh other factors when deciding custody issues. This includes consistency of the children's environment, such as their home and community, as well as your ability to maintain a healthy relationship between your children and their other parent.